As I was falling asleep yesterday, a random thought popped into my head, an epiphany, if you will; "you can't change someone's dish soap." At first my foggy mind smiled to itself, impressed, then I snapped to reality and thought, "well, what the heck does that mean?"
"I'm guessing dish soap is someone's mind, based on the context. Or maybe a certain way of doing something." "So, if I see someone making a big mistake, I shouldn't even try to help them?" "Dish soap isn't that serious. "
Conclusion: we all have friends and family who have a certain way of doing things. We love them anyway, but 'that thing' they do just irks us. That's their dish soap. Everyone has one, sometimes more than one. It can be as petty as the way they chew or say a certain word, but it manages to annoy someone else.
What I realized yesterday is that the same way the dish soap we use doesn't really matter as long as dishes are clean, our individual 'dish soaps' don't change the person we actually are. They're usually an extension of our personalities.
If you like a person, however irritating that habit of theirs may be, it doesn't weigh in comparison of who they are. I don't go to a restaurant and ask what brand of soap they used, I check that my dishes are clean and go on to eat my food.
While others dish soaps are annoying to me, and I know mine are annoying to others, it's important to remember that you can't change that about them and you really don't have to. If they're your family, then you're stuck with them unconditionally, and if it's your friends, then, you're friends because of the simple fact that you like the person they are.
So if you happen to see someone washing dishes with a stupid soap, build a bridge and get over it.